We continued talking about the Vance McAllister scandal today.. the Congressman was caught kissing an aide by a security camera, and the footage was then released to a newspaper.
Both the Congressman the aide are married. So it made me think, “Is kissing cheating?” Well, is it? Would you break up or divorce your partner if you found out they made out with somebody else (let’s assume it only happened once)?
Well, we got some interesting takes on the matter; but one stood out in particular to me. A caller named Kelton believes that Congressman McAllister should not resign; and he said that when it comes to cheating, “I always have to place blame on the woman… men walk around all day thinking about women, that’s the way God made us. I think it’s up to the women to make sure that they don’t allow us men to do what we want to do.”
Not me, folks. It takes two to tango. But what do YOU think? Do you agree with Kelton, or is that crazy? Sound off in the comments below!
Look at it like this: how would kelton feel if he walked up on his wife (if he's married) hmmm I think he will rethink his comment
I must ask myself,who is cheating who,?when two married parties engage in this knowingly it is the absent patner who is cheated on
Yes, kissing (mouth kissing) is cheating
Heck, even texting is cheating. However, it is up to the people in this congressman's district to decide whether he's out or still in office. He represents them, after all. Their call.
Heat of the moment
That was no peck on the cheek...A lack of physical boundaries has been in place for awhile here.The casual,careless nature also suggests no"one time"incident.Who holds the "power" status here....and therefore the blame....he does.
Who's to blame?
The question is why do men cheat and why do women cheat? I would not divorce my wife if she made out with someone because marriage is for life and we need to work on it but why did she cheat would be my question. Kissing is cheating but not deeply disturbing as are other sexual acts. If they are caught up in a moment of mutual excitement/elation okay. But maybe they hate their situation and what more. Maybe the congressman wants more like sex and maybe the woman truly cares for the man or wants the notoriety he possesses. Either way if a man makes out with his sister is it inappropriate? Yes. So is making out with someone who is not your wife/husband.
maybe it's me..
Kissing is fun. Penitration is cheating.
Your station,s promotion of gay issues especially scoot is really cheating the public of any morality